First, announcement: I won’t disappoint sapa-sapa yang wanted to invite me to their open house. Insyaallah saya akan cuba datang despite jadual yang ketat dan serang. Huhu.

My Raya wasn’t so bad. Seems like I put on 1kg overnight. LOL. People started flocking at my front yard as early as 9pm. I hardly have a proper raya family picture. So I passed the morning raya picture. The kids? Wow! (sigh) Hyper as ever. Ali cracked (unfortunately cracked here means have to replace the whole thing) the car’s passenger mirror on the 4th raya night and bumped to bleed his forehead on the 5th raya. How ‘cool’ were that? He accidently knocked his forehead at the edge of one stair and it was bleeding like hell and we were panicked like hell too and rushed him to nearby clinic. Luckily no stitches required. Thank you Allah. Actually clinic did not accept under 2 year old baby with a bleeding head or forehead or anything that seems to do with head being knocked afraid there are concussion or whatsoever and advised us to bring him to the hospital instead for further x-ray and check up. But when she looked at the wound, no stitches required and Ali has calmed down a little. She just prescribed an antibiotic and pain killer and cleaned the wound and asked us to look for a signs of vomiting or sudden change of behavior like blur, doesn’t respond when being called or things like that. Alhamdullillah, he was err..climbing and dancing and screaming as usual on that night. Phew..what a relieve…

Cermin kereta yang tak berdosa.

Ali with bandage yang hanya kekal duk kat situ selama 30 minit sahaja.

Sila undi: Wajarkah Ali dipakaikan topi keledar keselamatan walaupun ketika bermain di dalam rumah? (After pic. Note the dried wound on the forehead)

Raising 2 boys about a same age is not easy my friend. I’m so tired. My husband also tired. I so need a maid, but not Indonesian. (Have you guys read about the maid that actually peed on the family’s drinking water? Horror ok…). I’m getting slower at 31 weeks. You can hear me yelling at my kids because I don’t have the energy to get up and save them from being fall down, or refrain things from tumbling down on them or from playing with the ‘things that cannot be played as a toys’ etc. Je suis pardon MIL, I rather yell than watching my kids hurt. (because she said I yell too much). At least yelling will keep them at halt and it helps a lot for info. But please bare with the kids yelling at you back and sometimes at them each other LOL. There’s nothing I can do. Advising on parenthood is cheap, the one who experiencing it knows best, okay. Hope I’m not turning into barred owl in the near future.

But I am thankful for having such a great healthy bright boys.  ‘Memang berbaloi’.

Jalan-jalan cari pasal. Eh, jalan-jalan raya ramai-ramai. Dem I looked huge in this pic.

Ya-ya sisterhood.

Bapa dan anak macam sengal jer kat rumah orang..